Our seven year-old has been taking piano lessons since late
last year. She has some musical gifts and
we delight in seeing her develop them as she learns to play the piano. Her teacher is very good with her and was
able to recognize that our daughter has a good ear. She tends to learn and play music as she understands
the melody and harmony in her head. The
downside of that is that she sometimes relies on her ear to the point of not
paying much attention to the notes that are written on the page.
One of the songs she learned was a simple version of the Doxology. It has a easy melody and she was very
familiar with it from singing it in church each Sunday. After she learned it we invited her to play
it one morning in worship. While the
notes were right, the tempo was much too fast for us to sing along with!
Over the past two weeks we have seen how hard it is to take
a melody you know in your head and play it on the piano, paying it the way the
notes are written and not the way your head tells you to. The tune has been the theme song for the Flintstones, and learning
it has been hard.
If a person counts the notes as it is being played it seems like
it should be easy. One, two, three, four.
One, two, three, four.
It seems like such a simple melody, but it has a little
quirk, a hiccup, that has made it a challenge.
Every once in a while the music has a place for a rest, a moment when
the person doesn't play any notes at all.
And there is something about these rests that has made it a struggle.
We have tried a number of ways to help Kat learn this. Sitting next to her. Playing it for her. Counting it out with her. Changing the counting so that I say
"One, two, three, four, rest, two, three four." Slowly counting, while moving my finger to
point out each note as I sing the melody.
The last method is the one that seem to have finally worked.
This episode with the Flintstones reminded me of how
important it is as a Christian to have someone we can turn to and help us
understand things. Sometimes this is
just someone we can talk to, some who will listen to what we have to say and
speak back to us with honesty. Sometimes
it is someone who has more spiritual maturity and wisdom, someone who can help
us wrestle with parts of the Bible that may be hard for us to grasp. There may be a section of the Bible that is
calling us to act in a certain way, perhaps to forgive when forgiveness is the
very last thing we want to do.
We may not want to forgive and yet we sense that is what God
may be calling us to do. A friend who
will walk us through a text, helping us to clearly see, phrase-by-phrase,
word-by-word, what it is truly telling us, is a precious gift from God. I have been blessed to have several of these friends
in my life. May God also provide one to
you.